The Dæmon of Exclusiveness

by | Jun 23, 2020 | Homeschool

In my talk today at the Charlotte Mason Inspired Online Homeschool Conference, I quoted Charlotte Mason and her warning against idolizing beauty above all else. Because it was long, I skipped parts as I read aloud, but I promised to post the entire section today. It is good for us to strive for the very best books, but we also must avoid making an idol of beauty (or a particular type of beautiful book) as we consider our children, end goals, and the definition of “best.”

Chapter V The Beauty Sense

The Dæmon of Exclusiveness. — The Beauty Sense adds so much to the joy of life that it is not easy to see what danger attends it. But, perhaps, Exclusiveness is the Dæmon that waits on a too keen sense of the joy of Beauty, whether in music, painting, one’s own surroundings, or even in natural scenery. Exclusiveness gets the ear of the Prime Minister and convinces him that the joys of Beauty are so full and satisfying that nothing else is necessary to complete the happiness of life. In vain does Intellect invite to new fields of research; in vain does good and necessary work present itself; in vain are duties clamorous. The person who is given up to the intoxication of Beauty conceives that Beauty and Goodness are one and the same thing, and that Duty is no more than seeking one’s own pleasure in the ways one best likes. People, too, become excluded.

We may not Choose our Lives.––Instead of accepting the relations, friends, and neighbours that God sends us in the course of our lives, the devotee of Beauty chooses for himself, and cares to know only those people whose views of life are the same as his own. So with regard to places, he cannot tolerate for a moment things which are unsightly and unlovely, so he does not go where working people and poor people have to live. In the end, he misses the happiness to which the Beauty Sense was meant to minister. For happiness comes of effort, service, wide interests, and, last and least, of enjoyment; and when people put enjoyment, even of beautiful things, in the first place (and indeed in place of all else), they miss the very thing they seek, and become enfeebled in body and fretful and discontented in temper.

A Paradise of Pleasure.––But we need not let fear of evil keep us out of that paradise of pleasure which the Beauty Sense is meant to open for us all. Of two things we must take heed. In the first place, we must not let any better-than-my-neighbour notions get into our heads; and in the next, we must make it our business, as much as in us lies, to bring Beauty to places where it is not. Bearing these two cautions in mind, the Dæmon of Exclusiveness need have no terror for us.

– Charlotte Mason [Ourselves, Volume 4, pgs 54 & 55]

9 Comments

  1. Gwen

    I appreciated this new view of beauty and its counterfeit the “demon of exclusiveness”. May we all grow in our understanding of God, Soul as the source of all beauty. Though mortal eyes may never see that beauty, those with spiritual vision recognize the beauty that reflects Him as the only real and eternal truth. Matt 13:15,16 Thanks for your inspiring talk.

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    • HeritageMom

      Amen. Thank you for being here and sharing this, Miss Gwen. xoxo

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  2. Christ

    This is blowing me away! Thank you for sharing this, I am going to keep coming back to this one, there’s so much here. Whoa…

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    • Christie

      So not sure why my whole name didn’t show in that last comment LOL

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    • HeritageMom

      It’s pretty deep, right? I had to read it so many times before I was ready to talk about it. And that’s OK about your name – I figured it got cut off, lol.

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  3. Kate

    This is very thought provoking. Thank you for sharing.

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    • HeritageMom

      I thought so too. I had to sit with it for a while before I was able to share or even form coherent thoughts. It’s a lot. But ultimately, I walked away feeling happier than ever to have found Charlotte Mason.

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  4. Cait

    Wow, I’m so amazed and thrilled to see these words from Charlotte Mason! I wouldn’t have imagined them and she is always surprising me. Thank you for sharing! I can’t wait to get a chance to listen to your talk.

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    • HeritageMom

      I know! You should have seen me when I first read that. It was the middle of the night, and my mind was racing trying to figure out who I could text that would care as much as I do, lol.

      Reply

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